In truth, most women are really cautious when discussing their sexual needs because they fear that they might be judged or misunderstood.
According to Dr. Tyler Ong, a clinical psychologist, and family and marriage therapist, “Women have been taught for many generations to be submissive and silent. These women might decide that it’s not worth confronting their partners about, especially when it might mean a loss of warmth or intimacy in other areas of their lives. Men, after all, tend to suffer from a lessening of their masculinity when told that they weren't able to satisfy their partners.”
That is the main reason why we always need to communicate openly.
Let’s see the detailed responses of the ladies from the survey they conducted below:
“I like to have sex whenever possible. My work schedule is completely opposite with my partner so I really like it wild whenever we have time.” —Nica, 25
“It depends on a lot of factors like work and stress, but generally every other day would be nice. It doesn’t really have to be long, just a meaningful one.” —Aira, 27
“I would be happy with three to four times a week. If there’s a marathon weekend in there, I can handle no sex for a few days after.” —Ella, 28
“I’d say I’d want sex anywhere from four to 10 times a week. It really depends on my mood and free time.” —Charmaine, 22
“I think twice or four times a week is okay. But let me note that it’s about quality over quantity every time. If it’s not great sex, there’s no point.” —Michelle, 30
“I’m cool with three or five times per week. More is a plus, but not necessary. I’m also flexible on the definition of sex. It could just be foreplay or a quickie.” —Lovely, 24
“For me, it’s about feeling wanted, not just the sex. But I’m good with four to six times a week. I’d love to do it on a weekend because there’s nothing to worry about.” —Celine, 29